Posts Tagged ‘Marriage’
Staying Behind
People ask me questions before, during, and after my husband leaves for Africa. Family members, friends, Morning Star & Good Shepherd people, new acquaintances, and even strangers are interested in, “How do I do it?’
What is “it”? How do I allow my husband to go so far away facing obvious travel and health risks and how do I manage staying behind at home. Hmmm… One category of inquirers stands out from the rest. When asking this question they steady their eyes to look deeply into mine, expressing warm interest and concern; they are the women and, more precisely, women who are married.
I’ve done the summer 2009 tally and James and I have 27 other-continent trips between us. I’m the rookie traveler weighing in with 4 (disputable since my trips have been to Africa, Asia, and India) and James the “seasoned traveler” with a whopping 23. We’ve done two trips together but for twenty-two times I’ve said goodbye to him and stayed behind.
Here’s my answer to the “it” question…I allow my heart to embrace what the Lord’s purpose is for James. I allow my mind to envision the impact of his visit upon his listeners whether in Arusha or Sakila, or Manilla or Davao or where ever. My man has a destiny in God as every man does. I’ve chosen to do what I can to propel him towards that. Consider reading II Thessalonians 1:11-12 and apply to whomever is important to you.
Sarah Anne Smith