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In Memory of Helen Issangya
Mama Helen with one of her daughters Rogathe and one of her grandchildren, Shirley.
The first time I went to Africa was in 1993; that seems like two lifetimes ago. Since 1993 I have been back to Africa well over twenty times (thank you MSCF!). Most of these times I have stayed in the home of my dear friends Eliudi and Helen Issangya, in Sakila, Tanzania.
The first time I rode from the Kilimanjaro Airport to the village of Sakila I felt as if I had travelled to some foreign planet, or possibly the moon, that’s how strange it was to me (and also to my good friend, Mike Wood). Now when I go to Sakila it is truly my “second home.” Other than my own house I feel most at home when I am in Sakila. Much of that credit goes to Mama Helen Issangya who saw to it that I was welcomed and cared for over the last seventeen and a half years. This dear woman, wife of my great friend Eliudi Issangya, and mother to six children, has now passed on to her eternal home, a greater home. A land that will never grow old.
This blog is a small attempt to show her the honor and respect that is due to her for taking care of me and the many other people who showed up at her home in need of care. Mama Helen was always there for me. She made sure that I had the food that I needed, the clean water that was necessary, and she showed great compassion towards me as I went through everything from malaria (1996) to a heart attack that caused me to be hospitalized and have surgery in Amsterdam in 2007. She had suffered so much with her illness that she knew how to care for those who were in pain or distress.
Helen treated me with such respect. I hope that I sincerely returned that respect back to her. Thank you Mama Helen for giving yourself to all of us for all these years. I, and many others, African and Americans, will never forget all that you did for us, and the “Mama” that you were to us. Be at rest, Be at Peace, Mama Helen.
Helen Issangya went to her eternal home on February 2, 2010.
James R. Smith
Staying Behind
People ask me questions before, during, and after my husband leaves for Africa. Family members, friends, Morning Star & Good Shepherd people, new acquaintances, and even strangers are interested in, “How do I do it?’
What is “it”? How do I allow my husband to go so far away facing obvious travel and health risks and how do I manage staying behind at home. Hmmm… One category of inquirers stands out from the rest. When asking this question they steady their eyes to look deeply into mine, expressing warm interest and concern; they are the women and, more precisely, women who are married.
I’ve done the summer 2009 tally and James and I have 27 other-continent trips between us. I’m the rookie traveler weighing in with 4 (disputable since my trips have been to Africa, Asia, and India) and James the “seasoned traveler” with a whopping 23. We’ve done two trips together but for twenty-two times I’ve said goodbye to him and stayed behind.
Here’s my answer to the “it” question…I allow my heart to embrace what the Lord’s purpose is for James. I allow my mind to envision the impact of his visit upon his listeners whether in Arusha or Sakila, or Manilla or Davao or where ever. My man has a destiny in God as every man does. I’ve chosen to do what I can to propel him towards that. Consider reading II Thessalonians 1:11-12 and apply to whomever is important to you.
Sarah Anne Smith